Sosa

Álvaro Sosa

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My interviewee said that indeed she grew up in a family where her mother did all the house work (corresponding to women) like washing dishes, doing laundry, cooking, and child rearing and her father did the lawn. My interviewee is married and plans on not doing the same as her father and mother but not necessarily all different since the work at home still has to be done. She would like to accomplish an equilibrium with her husband on mutual agreements that solidify their relationship and their home. She said that her husband likes to have things to be a certain way in the house and she likes things to be done a certain way as well. So that's when they agreed on doing things as the partner desires so that they both are comfortable at home. She says it requires communication among them and that it is not expected to resolve the issues that might come up but as long as they keep trying to make an egalitarian home they should remain happy.