Thursday, December 18, 2014

Interviews

During my interview I asked a 27 year old female how she thought rape was related to homosexuality. She was baffled when I went into detail as to how this question came to be. At first she thought that men should just be gay and that he shouldn't have to prove that he is straight. Then I mentioned the gang-bang idea and she went on to tell me that she has seen this in porn and maybe this is the source of why these pornos are made. That there should be light shed onto this topic. 
Michael Nuci

If people can change the way in which we live by, like changing the word of masculinity then maybe violence will eventually come to a stop. It would reduce significantly and if we can change the train of thought by enforcing that a man touching a man will be considered "gay' then violence will soon cease to exist. My interviewee states that we are really comfortable for a man to touch a man that this is the reason in which violence occurs. So if we change the train of thought, violence will slowly disappear.  

Make Up Participation

Michael T Olague

On December 16th, 2014 I conducted an interview with a 92 year old male World War 2 veteran. The interviewee was prompted to the change in dynamics regarding women serving in the Armed Forces. During his time, women served in a limited capacity compared to what we see today. The military has adapted considerably in the last 70 years, opening up combat roles to women, ect. The interviewee was asked if women served aboard ships and bases alongside him. He stated that women did not serve on board ships, including medical positions. According to him, there existed a women corps called "Waves" in the Navy in which women filled secretarial positions, not combat positions. He added there were nurses in the Waves, but they served on bases, not combat deployed ships. When asked how people in his time would react to Waves serving on board ships he felt that society would be against it because at the time women were perceived to be weaker than men, that they couldn't handle the mental stresses of combat. 


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Michael Nuci 

The interview question that I asked was whether or not friendships are better for men or are they better for women. He stated that it was better for men to have men friendships because women get their feelings involved into most of the situations which always causes conflict. I asked him which friendships do you think last longer? He said that men's because of his personal experience. He had a friend for 13 years now and from what he seen from women, it was entirely not the same.
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Michael Nuci

The question that was asked was if whether of not it is nature or nurture that creates a female or a male. What I have come to understand from this is that my interviewee stated that he thinks it is a little of both. It id some what biological and somewhat having to do with the environment one grows up with. He gave an example of his mother, that his mother is not really feminine and has some masculine attitudes.   

Make up Participation

Michael T Olague

On 12/16/14 I conducted an interview with an 18 year old male college student. The interviewee was asked if he felt that men and women experienced religion differently. He felt that yes they did because they had different views and goals in society. In regards to how they're different he added that males and females have different roles within the family unit. Females are often more nurturing, providing the moral basis in which children are taught. Males are considered the breadwinner. Probing further, I asked whether how males and females have different roles in society formulate how they experience church. For example. males may be more inclined to skip church because they may have to work that day while on the other hand women have an obligation to attend church regularly. 

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Make Up Participation

On 12/17/14 I conducted an interview with a female college student on whether or not men and women attending college handle academic stress differently? For example, in one of my courses there is a female student who's always asking me for help before exams. I noticed that she stressed getting that "A"grade in everything she took. Her biggest concern was that her notes were never good enough and upon reviewing them I discovered that she covered more details than I did. After providing that example to the interviewee she went on to add that the reason men and women handle stress differently is because Women have to work twice as hard to get the same recognition in the professional world then men do. Men, can afford to slack off and get lower grades at times because they enter a workforce that operates under the invisibility of masculinity. Women are likely so stressed over their academics because they subconsciously understand that the glass ceiling is more prevalent to them.  

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Graves Participation Interview

In this interview, I talked to a teenage female. I asked her the question, "How do you see people 'doing gender' in society?" I asked her if she saw men and women acting a certain way because they were supposed to. She replied that she thinks a lot of where we learn how to act comes from our parents. As we grow up, we figure out there are certain things society expects males and females to do and how to behave. She went on to say that although there is a pressure, everyone should have the freedom to act the way they feel that they want to. She said just because we are women, doesn't mean we have to sit up straight and be pretty all the time. You can be you and still be feminine or a lady. The same goes for men. Being masculine doesn't mean you can't cry. When we talked about her family life, she explained that growing up with all boys gave her interest in what some people might call masculine things. She was into cars and building things. That was normal for her and she said people would be surprised she knew such things. Her point of view was that to be feminine doesn't mean you can't be interested in masculine. There can be a balance.


Chelsea Graves

Graves Participation Interview

In this interview, I asked my interviewee if they had ever experienced gender inequality. My interviewee was a 17 year old female, and because of her young age, I think, she told me she had not really experienced much gender inequality. Instead, she mentioned that she had experienced favoritism among her own gender. When I asked her about her background and family, she told me that growing up with three older brothers had given her different experience. I asked if she had experienced favoritism or different treatment inside her family, being the only girl. She replied that being the youngest sibling and only girl, the parenting was definitely more relaxed with her. They would think of her as just the little, innocent girl. She was automatically given more grace, thought of as innocent, and in need of protection, just because she was a girl. Now I wouldn't call this gender INEQUALITY; more like favoritism. I see this happening a lot in families with only one female child.


Chelsea Graves

Kayla Forte Participation

For this participation I interviewed a Caucasian female who is 25 years old and is a criminology student here at Fresno State. We talked about friendships and what we look for in a friend. When it comes to finding a new friend, there is no way to really go about it. She just keeps her mind open for someone who wants to hang out and go watch a movie and eat too much candy. For my interviewee, age does not matter, however she says that she is not friends with any one in high school any longer because they are just two different worlds at this time. When it comes to marital status she stated that she loves married couples as friends because you get two in one and they are both likely to help you find someone that will also bring out the best qualities in you. She does not discriminate on race or social class either. To her, these are not even relevant when she thinks of meeting new people. They are just characteristics, not qualifications.

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Kayla Forte Participation

For this participation I interviewed a 19 year old Caucasian male who is a student at Fresno State. This interview took place on December 18, 2014 in the Atrium at Fresno State. We talked about women in the workplace and the pay gap that we see in society. He was not aware of the pay gap so he was very shocked when he was made aware that women generally only make 77 cents for every dollar a man makes. He believes that everyone should be paid equally because they are doing the same work. It shouldn't matter what gender you are as long as you are doing a good job. He also believes that we see men in high positions because as a society we see them as strong and independent. Women are seen as weak and emotionally unstable. Society has created a sort of norm that a man is the one that holds the power. We are just used to the idea of having a man in power and people do not like change.

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Re:

Everything is due by Thursday 10pm.
Yes, the makeup participation is only if you haven't done ten already.
 
 


From: "Eduardo Gutierrez" <eduardotgutierrez@gmail.com>
To: tkubal@csufresno.edu
Sent: Thursday, December 18, 2014 4:12:14 PM

Are the remaining discussion papers due by 10 or do we have until 11:59 to submit them. (Violence paper and body paper)

Also the make up participation opportunities, are those only if we haven't done ten already ?

Thank you

Eduardo Gutierrez


Participation

Karanvir Gill

I interviewed a 21 year old Caucasian male about whether or not he thinks gay marriage should be allowed, legally. He responded with a firm no saying that he does not think its a marriage. He explained that he considers it homo sexual relationship, and theres nothing wrong with having a relationship like this, but to label it a marriage would be wrong. He grew up in a traditional Catholic family, and religion for him says that marriage is supposed to be between a male and female. He said having a gay relationship should not be banned from any state, but marriage would not make sense.

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Participation

Karanvir Gill

I interviewed my respondent about death penalty and how he felt about it. He told me that in the beginning he was all for it, that people who committed a crime be sentenced. Now he has a bit more moderate view, saying that the death penalty should only happen on people that committed inexcusable, serious crimes. The eye for an eye philosophy is something he agrees upon saying that its only right that not just the victim and there family feel pain. He believes that the death penalty should be legal in all fifty states, but there should be severe restrictions.

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Participation

Karanvir Gill

I interviewed my interviewee about how he felt about the Ferguson indictment and events surrounding it. My respondent replied by saying he didnt know which side to take. There was way too much conflicting evidence he said, in both directions which makes it much difficult to determine whether or not one side the right one or not. He did say however, that the riots occurring were inexcusable and made no sense because this also people living out in the bay with bans on some activities.


Marisa Diaz

  Marisa diaz

there is not doubt that the idea of gender and gender inequality is seen everywhere however when you think of eduction you would hope to find that everyone has an equal playing ground. Today I conducted an interview and the question was "in class settings do you think teachers have different gender expectations for students" my interviewee stated something interesting when she discussed the math levels. In class we discussed how in the class room males do better in math however my interviewee brings up a study was done and although males are seen to be smarter and do better in math that is not necessary true because women also score high in english as well as math. Although she sees a difference in the way males and females are treated in class she feels that there should not be a given set of expectations.

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Sosa, Alvaro

Álvaro Sosa

Class Interview from December 10, 2014

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How can we transform the meaning of masculinity in society so that it is no longer equated with violence?  

            The interviewee believes that to change the meaning would have to start at an early age for a child.  It would require to change the programing of television shows. He mentioned how his nephew likes to play to be a ninja turtle to kill the bad guys. He says then that not only do kids replay the scenes but they also take them to extremes like his nephew. The kids are developing a desire to fight violence when it really did not existed. So then that are those who want be the criminals and at the end kids grow playing the roles in real life. The solution perhaps is then to not teach masculinity to kids! It is natural that the kids will interact with those other kids who have or are being masculinized but at least it is a start. 

Marisa diaz

  Marisa diaz

today I conducted an interview which focuses on the ideas of the double stander between men and women. My interviewee automatic discussed the ideas of how women see other women and how men see other men. She takes account of the Carol's Jr. commercials and states when women see this with these girls breast hanging out they feel offended and criticize these women telling them that showing of there body is wrong yet when men do it it is perfectly fine. She brings up the idea that women seem to get more angry bout women who do such commercials because in reality no women ever looks like that, kind of like the ideas of the gender myths.

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Marisa Diaz

  Marisa diaz

today I conducted an interview which focuses on the ideas of romance the question was "Who is more romantic -- men or women?  Who is more likely to believe in the ideal of romantic love?  Who is more likely to believe in love at first sight?  Who tends to fall in love quicker?  According to research, the answer to each of these questions, is men.  Why does our society perceive women as more romantic, when the research shows that men are more romantic? " my interviewee stated that was a good question she herself never understood why women are seen as being the most romantic compared to guys, however if she had to look at it should would have to say the idea its because men are to be looked at as these people who are strong and masculine and when showing feeling like love and affection it isn't seen as a masculine quality, yet it is okay for women to be seen as sensitive because well "women are okay to show emotion".

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Marisa Diaz

  Marisa Diaz

in today class session the question we discussed was 'how can we transform the meaning of masculinity in society so that it is not equated with violence ? My Interviewee believed that it would be a difficult process to began to change the way society connects to masculinity wih violence, however she feels that media plays a huge role on how masculinity is connected to violence and the only way to began to change it is to change the way people portray masculinity within the media. Because the idea that the media has a huge impact on the way society acts, and media gives the okay for men t o be violent.  

Participation

Karanvir Gill

I asked my interviewee on how he would change the definition of masculinity to a better, more neutral definition and he replied that definition today involves men being displayed as overpowered. There is competition and certain tradition that a male should follow to be considered a man. So to fix this, he said you need to change the definition to where there is no pre-standard or traditon. He explained a man should just be allowed to do what he feels like doing. He also said that educating people is a solution, and having influential people talk about the issue would bring about more awareness. 


Kayla Forte Participation

For this interview, I spoke with a 19 year old African American female. The question I asked was how do we see gender portrayed in the media? She really focused on music and how we see the media and gender taking place here. She believes that there are so many boy bands nowadays and the females have been sort of pushed to the back. She believes that if there were more girl bands that we would have more girls finding their identity and being able to relate with these girls instead of obsessing over the boy bands. We see the media attacking these boy bands for being gay and forming the idea we have of a bromance. We see the girl bands being scrutinized for attacking men in their songs and being overly emotional females. The main issue is the media trying to get as much attention as they can and in doing so they create turmoil that affects how people view certain groups or individuals.


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Wednesday, December 17, 2014

chapter 13 interview

JOSE GUERRERO

my interviewee was asked the following question, Do you think the betrayal of women's body in the media effect young women or girls today? She said yes media does play a role on how a women's body should be or her weight. She said the media or company play or have these commercial that have all these skinny girls in it so from watching that girls might assume thats the weight they should be. I then had a follow up question if she taught that if by trying to look like skinny models would develop by eating habits from girls? she said yes she did believe that can happen. there is a certain weight or look that any girl tries to be and will take any extreme to try and look like that, for example if she needs to not eat any food at all or if she does eat something she will just throw it back up. I then asked about plus size models she said she didnt agree with the plus size models that they have now. She believes a size 6 is not a plus size and a girl shouldn't think she is fat if she were that size. 

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chapter 14 interview

JOSE GUERRERO

i asked my interviewee how can we transform the meaning of masculinity in society so it is no longer equated with violence? She said if the media did a better job at portraying men's role in positive way it would be better. She said for example instead of the men always being the bread winner why not show a women be the bread winner and have the husband be a stay at home dad and do all the house work and still be able to maintain that masculinity of a man. she also said in movies or tv shows can also change, instead of showing gang member killing each other or fighting why not show one step up and say how it is bad what they are doing or not shooting at somebody because of a color. But overall the media is where it needs to start changing because that plays a huge part in it she said. 

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Participation Interview

Question: How can we transform the meaning of masculinity in society so it is no longer equated with violence?
Respondent J believes it would be difficult and it's a big idea. J thinks that starting with transforming the way masculinity is interpreted in society would be a essential in decreasing the violence. J believes that violence is embedded in masculinity and by erasing concepts of femininity and masculinity altogether would be a way to decrease men's propensity towards violence. This would produce an even better result because we would have less violence and more equality with the genders. J went on to say that her father was drawn to only manly, violent movies but her guy friends don't watch them. She seems optimistic that the next generation will be less violent. 

Tuesday, December 16, 2014

Nick Nakashian Violence Weekly Participation

            When asked the question in class on what should be done to change the definition of masculinity as to make in not violent, my interviewee felt that education was key. She felt that in order to change masculinity, we must all realize that there is a problem in the violence of men. She also felt that women, or other receivers of male violence need to be willing to realize their situation and change it. Too often she said that women will stay in abusive situations for wrong reasons and they ignore the problem at hand.

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Violence Weekly Participation

            When asked the question in class on what should be done to change the definition of masculinity as to make in not violent, my interviewee felt that education was key. She felt that in order to change masculinity, we must all realize that there is a problem in the violence of men. She also felt that women, or other receivers of male violence need to be willing to realize their situation and change it. Too often she said that women will stay in abusive situations for wrong reasons and they ignore the problem at hand.

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weekly participation- Jessica Creager

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For one of my make up weekly participation's, I used one of the possible questions for chapter 13 paper. The question was to read the heterosexuality questionnaire and then to ask "do you think this helps uncover the heterosexual bias in our society and accurately portrays the stereotypes that people have of gays and lesbians in today's society?". I asked my interviewee to choose one of the questions from the questionnaire and discuss it in relation to the question. She chose the question "Why do you flaunt your heterosexuality? Can't you just be who you are and keep it quiet?". She said she chose this question because it shows how mean and one-sided people are in our society. She said how can people just say that I should keep quiet about how I am. She stated that straight people can walk around holding hands and showing PDA but if you're gay or a lesbian you cannot do that and people think its "wrong". She said that it is sad to think that that is how our society is, that we are so bias. She stated that no one would every say to a straight person that they need to be quiet about their sexuality. She said that our society is so focused on making a man and a women together a priority and the "standard" that it rejects anything else. 

Sunday, December 14, 2014

Eduardo Gutierrez

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This week's question discussed what would need to be done in order to remove violence from the meaning of masculinity. As for my opinion, I feel that it would be effective to take violence out of video games and movies that are intended for young children. Games that require thought process, stratagey, and interaction would be far more affective in the socializing of masculinity with the absence of violence. Too many young boys are socialized to believe that they must fight, push, and shove in order to act like a boy acts when ever they play with other male friends. To them masculinity is taught through violence although there are many other ways to portray masculinity with out portraying violence. 

FW: In Class Interview




From:Ashley Trembley ashley-rose18@hotmail.com
To: tkubal2.2009.gender@blogger.com
Subject: In Class Interview
Date: Sun, 14 Dec 2014 22:24:08 -0800

During our in class interviews I interviewed a 26 year old male. I asked him, "How can we transform the meaning of masculinity in society so it is no longer equated with violence?" and the interviewee responded with, "In our modern society we should stop equating masculinity and violence with life success" and how to go about it; he wasn't quite sure. He mentioned how one of his guy friends had a mindset of being too good for school but wanted to live off his girlfriend who is currently going to nursing school. As if he's contradicting himself. I asked if any changes were going to made in our lifetime and he said probably not. Overall the interviewee was fixated on the idea that success was the root cause as to why masculinity was accociated with violence and any methods of doing so were just out of reach. That our society in 2014 isn't ready to change this meaning because of how gendered we are. To counteract what he said, I think it is possible. There needs to be more disscusion, ideas, people invovled, and head strong will power. Ultimately a lot of meanings and stigmas need to change if anyone wants to transform the meaning of masculinity and feminism. 

In Class Interview

During our in class interviews I interviewed a 26 year old male. I asked him, "How can we transform the meaning of masculinity in society so it is no longer equated with violence?" and the interviewee responded with, "In our modern society we should stop equating masculinity and violence with life success" and how to go about it; he wasn't quite sure. He mentioned how one of his guy friends had a mindset of being too good for school but wanted to live off his girlfriend who is currently going to nursing school. As if he's contradicting himself. I asked if any changes were going to made in our lifetime and he said probably not. Overall the interviewee was fixated on the idea that success was the root cause as to why masculinity was accociated with violence and any methods of doing so were just out of reach. That our society in 2014 isn't ready to change this meaning because of how gendered we are. To counteract what he said, I think it is possible. There needs to be more disscusion, ideas, people invovled, and head strong will power. Ultimately a lot of meanings and stigmas need to change if anyone wants to transform the meaning of masculinity and feminism. 

Quintanilla

Cynthia Quintanilla

The question is "How can we transform the meaning of 'masculinity' in society so that it is no longer associated with violence?" 

The person I interviewed had a bit of fun with it. She said that if men were to be held to the same beauty standards as women and society made it so that being physically attractive and having sex appeal (for women's sake) was masculine, then violence would be forgotten. If men thought masculinity was "being cute for my girl" then not only would the focus be on grooming and flirting, but men and women would bond via similar experiences. The interviewee noted that the beauty industry would make a ton of money off of redefined masculinity. While she thinks it might solve the violence issue, it might increase body image problems. 

Graves Class Participation

My interview this week was focused on how we can transform the meaning of masculinity in society so it is no longer equated with violence. My interviewee started right off with targeting the problem. He explained that a lot of the lower-income society uses violence. The mindset of the uneducated and under-privileged is different. They go off of basic/primal instinct. For example, the toughest guy is the leader. Therefore, to show off masculinity and prove their status, they must show their strength and be able to fight. However,a more intelligent society can realize that other things are more important and that self-control is more masculine than violence or anger. More privileged people also have the money to do things they want rather than refer to violence. My interviewee seemed to have very good insight, being a man himself, and expressed an opinion of masculinity being a provider and protector of the family and being able to show restraint and respect. 


Chelsea Graves

Brianne Wagner: Males and Violence

The respondent and I discussed the relationship and association of masculinity and violence. I asked the interviewee how we, as a society could change the definition violence by detaching it from the masculine stereotype. She believed that much of what we consume in the media and through being raised shapes our association of masculinity and violence and if we can change those aspects, the latter can change as well. In reference to that, I inquired how we could change those things and she replied that the media and society put a pressure on males to be the strong and aggressive types or else they are seen as weak or feminine. In order to carry out that type of character they often turn to aggression and violence. If we are able to lessen the stereotypes of men being the aggressive individuals, we can possibly lower the amount of violence that occurs.

weekly participation- Lacey Missaghian

Lacey Missaghian
For our last in class interview we asked the question, "How can we transform the meaning of masculinity in society so it's no longer associated with violence?" This is a tricky question and what was suggested was possibly giving violence a homosexual connotation. An example given was men who wrestle and how close they are to one another and how it isn't uncommon for one man to have his privates in the face of another's while wrestling. One thing I have learned over the semester is that men are constantly trying to prove their manhood to other men and avoid any misinterpretation of them being homosexual if they are not. So one way we could discourage straight men from physically fighting is by creating the idea that physical fighting is too intimate or too close to be participating in if you aren't gay or female. It's a long shot but a very unique suggestion.

Weekly Participation

For our last in class interview we asked the question, "How can we transform the meaning of masculinity in society so it's no longer associated with violence?" This is a tricky question and what was suggested was possibly giving violence a homosexual connotation. An example given was men who wrestle and how close they are to one another and how it isn't uncommon for one man to have his privates in the face of another's while wrestling. One thing I have learned over the semester is that men are constantly trying to prove their manhood to other men and avoid any misinterpretation of them being homosexual if they are not. So one way we could discourage straight men from physically fighting is by creating the idea that physical fighting is too intimate or too close to be participating in if you aren't gay or female. It's a long shot but a very unique suggestion.

weekly participation- Jessica Creager

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The question this week is "How can we transform the meaning of masculinity in society so it no longer associated with violence?". My interviewee stated that we would need to use the media to change the characters within movies,etc. To put men in more passive, more feminine roles such as nurses and make them still look "cool". She stated that with the fem fatale movement allowed women to be portrayed in more powerful and successful roles. She believes that this portrayal in movies, etc. allowed women to acceptably act that way in society. And if media did the same opposite gender roles for me, it would be more acceptable for men. She also stated that we could encourage children to play or express themselves however they choose. To let young boys know that they do not have to be the macho military man. If we as a society we did not treat boys and girls so differently, you would see a change with each generation. We would continue to see the change and there would be less gender differences thus violence would no longer be associated with masculinity. 

Friday, December 12, 2014

Darnell Taylor

Participation- Make up

I just read an article about the fear of commitment, and the fact that our society has turned that into a bad thing. People talk about others have a fear of getting into a relationship like its a bad thing, when in reality it is way better to take caution when you are making a decision of opening up to someone. People play it off like that person is being selfish but in reality they are really just being honest and upfront about what they want from the get-go. I chose to interview a man in his 50's and we talked about commitment in general and what factors lead to commitment issues. He said that he does not feel like gender has an effect on whether or not someone wants to commit because it really just depends on the person. He was saying that people are not necessarily afraid of commitment, but that it is something that we should take seriously because it makes a difference in your ice. Sometimes relationships lead to even bigger things such as buying a house or having children, so you have to make sure that you are committing to the right person, and for the right reasons. I asked him whether or not media plays a part in commitment issues because people are always looking for more in their lives, and he felt that media definitely plays a huge part in it. He was saying that media is something that is always going to be around, but that it makes people want it all out of a relationship. People want something that is not necessarily possible, so that makes it harder to commit to what they have. 

Darnell Taylor

Participation- Make Up

Today I read an article about the Los Angeles Lakers and how they call joined the protest of the case in New York where the police officer choked a kid out. They joined a silent protest in which they wore shirts that said "I Can't Breathe." The reason for the shirts is that the kid ended up dying and in a recording of the incident you can hear the victim saying that he can't breathe. For this article I chose to interview an African-American male in his 50's about the whole issue from the article. I asked his both about the instance with the police officer and also about the players wearing the "I can't breathe" shirts. He and I felt the same way in that we both feel like it is part of the job of being a professional athlete to be aware of issues, and to use their publicity to take a stance. He stated that he felt like the players should not be fined because they weren't hurting anyone, and were just displaying their opinions on a very important issue. I also asked whether the man felt like this was a race issue, or simply an issue of injustice in America. He told me that he feels like the issue is both because black men are constantly dying at the hands of white police officers and that is a problem of race. The numbers of white people versus black people dying at the hands of police officers is not equal, and that proves that there is definitely a race issue that needs to be solved. However, it is also an issue of injustice because the man was wing arrested for a non-violent crime, and should never have been put in a choke-hold in the first place. 

Darnell Taylor

Weekly Participation- Make Up

Today I read an article about the effects of smartphones on relationships from a woman's perspective. I thought this article was interesting because it talked about how women are feeling like they are spending more time on their phones than they are with their significant other. The article had many interesting facts such as the fact that more than 25% of people in relationships say that their significant other has texted during an important conversation. Another thing it said was that 62 percent of women said that technology interfered with time spent with their significant other.  man I spoke with was in his 50's and I asked him if he thinks it's true that relationships are being affected by cell phones, and that people don't necessarily realize it. He said that he definitely thinks it's a problem, but it's more of a problem for women than it is for men because women are always trying to allow other people into their conversations and allowing other people to basically come into their relationship. He said that this isn't just a problem in relationships, but it's also a problem in everyday lives because we constantly see women talking on their phones and texting, anywhere we look. When I asked him if it has affected  his personal relationships, and he said that he definitely thought so. There have been times where he's in the middle of a conversation with a woman and all of a sudden she's on the phone with her friend asking her opinion. It's almost as though this has become an issue for men because it's a problem for women and we haven't changed how we think about things. However, I don't think this is something we should have to adapt for. I think it is a problem that needs to be fixed because with more technology in our lives, that is going to start to replace our interactions with each other, which is proven by this article.

Darnell Taylor

Participation- Make Up

Today I read an article about the Los Angeles Lakers and how they call joined the protest of the case in New York where the police officer choked a kid out. They joined a silent protest in which they wore shirts that said "I Can't Breathe." The reason for the shirts is that the kid ended up dying and in a recording of the incident you can hear the victim saying that he can't breathe. For this article I chose to interview an African-American male in his 50's about the whole issue from the article. I asked his both about the instance with the police officer and also about the players wearing the "I can't breathe" shirts. He and I felt the same way in that we both feel like it is part of the job of being a professional athlete to be aware of issues, and to use their publicity to take a stance. He stated that he felt like the players should not be fined because they weren't hurting anyone, and were just displaying their opinions on a very important issue. I also asked whether the man felt like this was a race issue, or simply an issue of injustice in America. He told me that he feels like the issue is both because black men are constantly dying at the hands of white police officers and that is a problem of race. The numbers of white people versus black people dying at the hands of police officers is not equal, and that proves that there is definitely a race issue that needs to be solved. However, it is also an issue of injustice because the man was wing arrested for a non-violent crime, and should never have been put in a choke-hold in the first place. 

Hernandez, Sara W/P #11

This week in class we talked about the issue of gendered violence. We were asked to conduct and interview that asked the following question, "How can we transform the meaning of masculinity in society so that it is no longer equated with violence?"My interviewee said that she thinks its gonna be very difficult to be able to do that because the meaning of masculinity is so embedded in society that its the only form of masculinity that every one knows about and that is equated with violence,

Thursday, December 11, 2014

Last In-class Participation

Michael T. Olague

During this interview session we discussed what would be done in order to transform the meaning of masculinity so that it is no longer equated with violence in our society. My interviewee stated that perhaps there needs to be a feminine aspect to violence. To highlight her point she gives an example - The interviewee has a cousin who dated a man who was in a abusive relationship with another woman prior. According to the interviewee the male was legitimately abused physically and mentally to the point where the male was fearful. It's not just men that are being violent in contemporary society - there is no equality that exists, rather there is a polar shift. Interviewee elaborates that violence against men are more prevalent because men deem reporting their abuse as emasculating. 

McDermott Participation

Heather McDermott Participation
When asked what she thought should be done in order to transform the meaning of masculinity so it's no longer equated with violence my respondent said that people need to change the way they look at things. Rather than judging a book by its cover, people need to get to know the person and not judge someone simply because they are a man. She pointed out that she has a boyfriend who can be aggressive when he needs to be but he's not a violent person. She also connected this with her dad and how there are times he messes around and wrestles with his family, but doesn't hurt them. She goes further by saying that just because you see a man yelling at his wife it doesn't mean he's violent. There can be a variety of factors involved such as him just being very frustrated at the time. She believes that society has created this idea that men are violent and everyone else simply buys into the idea. She stated that she was a criminology major and pointed out that women are just as capable of being violent. She believes another way that reduces this idea that men are violent has a lot to do with the way a person is raised and what their values are. If you are brought up to respect women and taught how to treat them the right way it will help with the concept that men are violent people in general.

Tuesday, December 9, 2014

office hours

I have regular office hours on Wed, and I have consultation office hours on Thursday from 1-3pm.  My office is near the computer lab (ss202), so if I'm not in my office, I'll be in the lab.

Wednesday, December 3, 2014

Sosa

Álvaro Sosa


The interview took place near Fresno State campus on December 12, 2014. It lasted six minutes and 14 seconds. The link is http://grooveshark.com/s/Sociology+131/79shxM?src=5. The interviewee responded to the question: Do your relationships fit the pattern of homogamy – dating someone of similar/same education, race, and social class – and why we tend to see the pattern of homogamy in society? He believes that his past and future relations follow the pattern of homogamy for the most part.  One of the examples he gave was social class. Social class would be factor in his relations because his machismo would not allow him to be in a relationship in which the female has a higher status them him and thus will chose or have chosen to date women of same or lower economic status. Because he is a religious person he would like to date women who are at least Christians and therefore would follow the pattern of homogamy. For the other factors he is more flexible but he would still in homogamy because he is restricted by his religious believe and his Latino machismo.